To dating older men
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.They have relationships and start families, but their primary focus is figuring out a way to make it in the world.
On the other hand, young adult men are more focused on the need for significance.This is a need that is different for men and women at different stages in their lives.Young adult women typically have more of a need for connection.He is tired of the rat race and is seeking more connection.
Simultaneously, an older woman is tired of putting herself second after her children and husband.
She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said.